When stress becomes a problem
Stress is a normal part of life, but chronic stress — ongoing, unrelenting pressure without adequate recovery — can lead to burnout, anxiety, depression, insomnia, physical health problems, and impaired relationships. Signs that stress needs professional attention include persistent irritability, difficulty relaxing, sleep problems, fatigue despite rest, frequent illness, difficulty concentrating, and withdrawal from activities or relationships.
Stress can also trigger or worsen existing mental health conditions. A thorough evaluation helps distinguish between normal stress responses, adjustment difficulties, and clinical conditions (anxiety disorder, depression, burnout) that require specific treatment.
- Persistent irritability, tension, or feeling overwhelmed
- Sleep problems despite being tired
- Difficulty concentrating, making decisions, or remembering things
- Physical symptoms: headaches, muscle tension, digestive issues
- Withdrawal from social activities or relationships
- Frequent illness (stress impacts immune function)
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Stress management approaches
CBT-based stress management helps identify the specific thoughts, behaviours, and situations that maintain the stress cycle. Techniques include cognitive restructuring (challenging unhelpful thought patterns such as catastrophising or perfectionism), time management and boundary-setting, relaxation training (progressive muscle relaxation, breathing techniques), and problem-solving strategies.
Where stress has led to burnout or clinical anxiety/depression, more targeted treatment may be needed — including medication if symptoms are moderate to severe. Dr. Shrestha tailors the approach to your specific situation, addressing both the external stressors (where possible) and your internal response to them.
| Technique | What it targets | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Cognitive restructuring | Unhelpful thought patterns | "I must be perfect" → realistic standards |
| Boundary-setting | Overcommitment and overload | Learning to say no, delegating tasks |
| Relaxation training | Physical tension and arousal | Progressive muscle relaxation, breathing |
| Problem-solving | Specific stressors | Breaking problems into manageable steps |
When to seek professional help
Self-help strategies (exercise, sleep hygiene, social support, time management) are valuable first steps, but professional help is warranted when stress persists despite these efforts, when it leads to significant distress or functional impairment, or when it co-occurs with depression, anxiety, or substance use.
The initial evaluation takes 45–60 minutes and includes a thorough assessment of stressors, symptoms, mental health, and functioning. Dr. Shrestha will help determine whether stress management strategies alone are sufficient or whether treatment for a co-occurring condition (anxiety, depression, burnout) is also needed.
- Seek help when stress persists despite self-help efforts
- Professional evaluation recommended when functioning is impaired
- Assessment covers stressors, symptoms, and co-occurring conditions
- Treatment may include CBT, lifestyle changes, or medication
- 45–60 minute initial evaluation