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Low self-esteem is a persistent pattern of negative self-evaluation, self-doubt, and feelings of inadequacy that affects all areas of life including relationships, work, and well-being.
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Low self-esteem is a persistent pattern of negative self-evaluation, self-doubt, and feelings of inadequacy that affects all areas of life including relationships, work, and well-being. Dr. Ruja Shrestha (NMC 19766, Experienced clinical practice in psychiatry and mental health) evaluates low self-esteem at Kathmandu Neurology Clinic & Cognitive Center, Durbar Marg, Opposite of Yak & Yeti Hotel, Kathmandu 44600, Nepal — evidence-based, medically reviewed.
Low self-esteem involves a negative evaluation of one's own worth, often accompanied by harsh self-criticism, fear of failure, and difficulty accepting compliments or recognizing achievements. It can affect both men and women and is often rooted in early experiences, social comparisons, or repeated negative feedback. provides compassionate CBT therapy to help patients build healthy self-esteem by challenging negative core beliefs and developing a more balanced, compassionate self-view.
Clinical interview exploring self-perception and life history; Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale (RSES); Coopersmith Self-Esteem Inventory; Screening for co-occurring depression, anxiety, or eating disorders; Assessment of how low self-esteem impacts daily functioning across domains.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT is highly effective for low self-esteem by identifying and restructuring negative core beliefs about self-worth, challenging cognitive distortions such as mind-reading and catastrophizing, and building self-compassion. guides patients through structured CBT exercises to develop a realistic, balanced self-view.. Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT): CFT helps patients develop self-compassion and reduce shame and self-criticism through practices that cultivate kindness toward oneself.. Behavioral experiments: Graduated behavioral tasks that test negative beliefs about oneself and build evidence for alternative, more positive self-concepts through direct experience.. Assertiveness training: Skills training to express needs, set boundaries, and communicate confidently in personal and professional relationships.. Positive data logging: Structured practice of recording and acknowledging achievements, strengths, and positive feedback to counter the negativity bias in low self-esteem..
Management is individualized and discussed with benefits, limitations, and follow-up.
Developing self-compassion and reducing self-criticism; Building supportive relationships that reflect a positive self-view; Setting realistic standards and celebrating small achievements; Limiting social media use and reducing social comparisons; Engaging in activities that provide a sense of competence and mastery; Challenging negative self-talk as soon as it appears.
CBT helps identify the negative core beliefs about yourself that maintain low self-esteem, challenge the evidence for these beliefs, and develop more balanced, realistic self-evaluations. provides structured CBT for lasting change.
Low self-esteem is not a diagnosis itself but is a common feature of many mental health conditions including depression, anxiety, and eating disorders. Therapy can effectively treat low self-esteem whether it occurs alone or with other conditions.
Many patients notice improved self-talk and reduced self-criticism within 6-10 sessions. Deeper, lasting change in core self-esteem typically requires 12-20 sessions over 3-6 months.
Some people improve self-esteem through supportive relationships, achievements, or self-help work. However, therapy provides structured, evidence-based tools for lasting change, especially when low self-esteem is deeply rooted.
Causes include childhood experiences with critical parents or bullying, traumatic experiences, chronic social comparison, repeated failures or rejections, and cultural messages linking worth to achievement.
Yes, low self-esteem often leads to people-pleasing, difficulty setting boundaries, fear of abandonment, staying in unhealthy relationships, or avoiding relationships altogether.
Yes, works with both adolescents and adults to build healthy self-esteem. Early intervention during teenage years is particularly effective.
Seek help if low self-esteem holds you back from pursuing goals, affects your relationships, causes significant distress, or is accompanied by depression or anxiety. Contact at .
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Major depressive disorder (MDD) is a common mood disorder characterized by persistent sadness, loss of interest, and a range of emotional and physical symptoms that impair daily functioning.
Confidence and assertiveness coaching helps individuals develop the skills to express themselves effectively, set boundaries, and pursue goals with self-assurance.
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Self-Compassion vs Self-Criticism: Building a Kinder Inner Voice with Dr. Ruja Shrestha (NMC 19766)
Self-criticism drives anxiety, depression and perfectionism. Learn the science of self-compassion — its three components, CBT techniques, and daily practices explained by Consultant Psychiatrist & CBT Therapist Dr. Ruja Shrestha (NMC 19766, MBBS, MD Psychiatry) in Kathmandu.
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Assertiveness Training: Learning to Express Needs Without Guilt — Guide by Dr. Ruja Shrestha (NMC 19766)
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Reviewed by Dr. Jitendra Prasad Yadav • Last reviewed: 2026-09-04
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Dr. Ruja Shrestha
Consultant Psychiatrist & CBT Therapist • MBBS, MD (Psychiatry) • NMC 19766
This condition guide was medically reviewed by Dr. Ruja Shrestha.
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